Multiple Baby Showers – SURPRISE! – Most women have more than one!

You are ready to have your first baby. The excitement is palpable. You have already done so much in preparation but probably feel there is more to do. As you approach the latter months of your pregnancy, you are most likely inundated with requests from family and friends to host a baby shower.

From your best friend to your mom to your mother-in-law to your co-workers, you have probably been on the receiving end of numerous requests. Many parents-to-be will have more than one baby shower for their impending new arrival, and that’s okay. It may actually be necessary.

When I announced to friends and family that I was pregnant with my first child, there was no lack of enthusiasm on anyone’s part. In fact, several people offered to throw me a baby shower later in my pregnancy: co-workers, relatives, church ladies, and neighbors. Everyone wanted to make me feel special. I enjoyed the attention and began to wonder what kind of helpI would receive to help my husband and I prepare for this exciting, new chapter in life. 

My thoughts also shifted to potential guest lists. Should I cross-invite people or keep the groups separated so no one would be the wiser as to my bounty of showers? What if I decided more than one shower was too much? I certainly couldn’t expect people to attend more than one baby shower, could I? What was the proper etiquette and how could I relax at my baby showers without stepping on anyone’s toes?  

While having multiple baby showers probably raises many questions and concerns, they’re actually easy to plan and enjoy. Not only this, but they’re way more common than you think; according to Babylist 72% of their users have more than one shower.

As the leader in virtual baby showers, WebBabyShower has helped thousands of families enjoy celebrating their growing families. With its ready-to-go set-up and customizable showers and invitations, you or your loved ones can easily plan multiple baby showers. Your go-to solution for all of your baby shower needs, WebBabyShower will have you saying “yes” to multiple baby showers without hesitation.

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Are You Even Supposed to Have Multiple Baby Showers?

Multiple baby showers often happen by choice. Perhaps your mom wants to throw one for you; maybe your mother-in-law is eager to host. Then there may be your friends, co-workers, former sorority sisters, and more who are super excited to pamper you and celebrate your baby’s impending arrival. These are all perfectly valid reasons to have more than one baby shower. 

When loved ones want to celebrate you in such a fun fashion, it can be difficult to choose someone to host your baby shower without hurting someone’s feelings. But baby showers follow a more inclusive etiquette these days, and having multiple baby showers is a way to include everyone.

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At WebBabyShower, there is a way to enjoy and celebrate the multiple baby shower issue on one single platform that can involve everyone. So if you have been on the receiving end of requests to throw more than one shower for your baby’s impending arrival, don’t worry — no feelings will be hurt here. This is the place where smiles abound and memories are made. You can even enjoy all of the fun and festivities in a completely guilt-free and cost-effective fashion. 

You can set up the online baby shower of your dreams using any one of WebBabyShower’s many custom themes and matching invitations. (If you have three baby showers to enjoy, that’s no problem! They can each have a different theme and style of their own.) You can also enjoy traditional baby shower games and even share your online gift registries. Plus, WebBabyShower has its own gift for you, too: a free seven-day trial with a full refund if you are not satisfied. And if you need a bit of technical assistance or support, we’re with you every step of the way.

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Congratulations if you are having multiple baby showers for your baby! You are definitely loved! This is one time that you don’t have to do all the work, either. Just sit back and enjoy. Leave the organizing of each baby shower to others, as whoever hosts is typically the one who pays for the baby shower

Hosted by Friends

If friends host the shower, the guest list could be a combination of co-workers, college friends, sorority sisters, or your book club group. You might even enjoy having multiple showers for different friend groups, as the guest list could become quite lengthy otherwise!

Hosted by the Mom-to-Be’s Family 

If the mother-to-be’s family wants to organize a baby shower, it may involve just inviting friends and family members close to their side of the family. Additionally, if the mom-to-be’s side of the family doesn’t get along well with members of the dad’s side of the family, this may be the way to go.

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Hosted by the Dad-to-Be’s Family

The family of the dad-to-be may want to throw a shower for their own side of the family. That way, everyone who attends will know each other, and, if both of the parents-to-be’s families are large, splitting them up will make the parties more manageable.

A Surprise Shower

You just never know when you might be on the receiving end of a surprise baby shower! This can work well for moms-to-be who may be experiencing certain difficulties in their pregnancy or are stressed about preparing for their new little one. A surprise baby shower may just be a much-needed pick-me-up. However, if the parents-to-be already have kids or are not the type of people who appreciate surprises, this might not be the ideal type of baby shower for them.

Reasons to Have Multiple Baby Showers

We cannot stress this enough: it is okay to have multiple baby showers for one baby. There are often many reasons why you would do this, too.  

Really Big Families 

If you and your spouse come from large families, your baby shower guest list could quickly add up. It just makes sense to hold two separate showers – one for each side of the family. It might feel a bit strange at first, but consider what it means: You have so many people who love and care for you and who want to help you celebrate this significant milestone in your life!

Some families may even recognize certain traditions when it comes to having a baby shower, so you may want to have separate showers to honor them all. . Many Mexican baby showers, for example, are a total family affair. It is not unusual for families to invite so many aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, grandparents, and friends to the baby shower that it acts more like a party than a baby shower. This type of event involves lots of traditional food, music, and fun. It’s definitely one to remember!

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Family Scattered Around the Globe in Different Time Zones

Consider the people you know who live all over the country and perhaps in other parts of the world. Think of their time zones. It just might not be convenient to have everyone at one party at the same time. Multiple baby showers can cater to certain guests’ schedules, making sure they’re included on the special day.

Many Friends 

It’s not unusual for some friends to want to have their own baby shower for the mom-to-be, keeping it separate from celebrations with family and other loved ones. Perhaps the family wants something simple and low-key while friends may want to throw a baby shower with a bit more pizzazz! Maybe coworkers want to throw a baby shower with just guests from the office!

You may even want to enjoy multiple baby showers with your friends. There could be some people who just simply don’t get along well, and you don’t want that kind of tension at a time when laughter and joy should be the only focus. Multiple baby showers is a great solution!

Potential Issues with Multiple Baby Showers

As I mentioned earlier, when I was the beneficiary of multiple baby showers, I felt a bit guilty. Being in a position to accept a lot of gifts felt, well, kind of greedy. But I did realize that if the tables were turned, I would want to celebrate a friend or family member in much the same manner. Plus, at the end of the day, you realize the event wasn’t just about the gifts. 

There is definitely something to be said about the fellowship of loved ones when it comes to honoring those significant milestones in life. A baby shower is not just about showering a person with gifts; it is also about showering them with love and support. I don’t think you can ever have too much of that!

Another thing to consider when having multiple baby showers is the worry of potentially offending someone. In other words, if you reject someone’s offer to host a baby shower because you had someone else ask to throw a shower, that person could get upset. Fortunately, WebBabyShower makes it super easy to enjoy multiple showers all around the world!

When you have multiple baby showers, there is the issue of sharing multiple gift registries. That can get confusing and time consuming when done on your own. With WebBabyShower, giving guests gift registry information is so simple. You can add as many registries as you please and easily remove them as needed. No fuss. No worries.

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What to Do If You Are Invited to Multiple Baby Showers

When it comes to being invited as a guest to multiple baby showers, there are a few rules of etiquette,  but there is also plenty of wiggle room these days for new approaches and “rules” to apply. Ideally it is best for hosts throwing multiple baby showers to keep the guest lists unique to each event, there may be times when guests are invited to more than one party for the same baby and mom-to-be.

This raises a few questions, such as Do I need to bring a gift to each baby shower? or  Do I need to go to each baby shower? Short answer? No to each. If you want to go to both showers, that is fine, but you shouldn’t feel obligated. Similarly, you don’t need to bring a gift to both. 

However, if showing up empty-handed feels a bit awkward to you, then you can bring a gift from the parent-to-be’s registry to one baby shower and a small gift like a box of candy to the other. If either baby shower is online, you can send a gift ahead of time. As a sweet acknowledgement, whoever is hosting the baby shower may mention your presence at the other shower and openly thank you for your generosity.

Online services have opened up new and exciting ways to celebrate a baby’s impending arrival. WebBabyShower allows you to comfortably enjoy multiple baby showers, so attending more than one is easy and fun. 

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Multiple Baby Shower FAQ

Can You Have Multiple Baby Showers? 

Yes! Parents-to-be can enjoy however many baby showers they’d like.

Is It Rude to Have a Second Baby Shower? 

No! Throwing more than one baby shower is a great way to include everyone you love in the celebration of your growing family.

Is It Normal to Have Two Baby Showers? 

Of course! Multiple baby showers just means there’s more love to give to the parent-to-be.

Who Throws the Second and Possibly Even the Third Baby Shower? 

It all depends on who has asked to host the shower. No matter who is hosting, be sure to get your virtual baby shower set up at WebBabyShower today.

The More the Merrier

If you are in a position where more than one person wants to throw you a baby shower, don’t hesitate to say, “Yes!” Enjoy this moment. Give friends and family the opportunity to shower you and your baby with love and affection. Becoming a parent is a huge deal and is certainly something worth celebrating. 

So, whether you have multiple showers at different times and locations or if you host them all via an online platform, such as WebBabyShower, let the good times roll! This is your time – and your baby’s time – to shine!

Dedicated to getting at least 30,000 steps a day, Ann Butenas begins her day around 4:30 each morning. Ann successfully (the jury is still out on this!) raised three sons while juggling the demands of entrepreneurship and a writing career. She writes for HERLIFE Magazine and is a Senior Writer for Healthy Kansas City Magazine. Ann is working on a new book, Potty Training the Parents.

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